Stephen R. Covey Quotes



    “We are not human beings on a spiritual journey. We are spiritual beings on a human journey.”
- Stephen R. Covey

    “The way we see the problem is the problem.”
- Stephen R. Covey


    “Start with the end in mind. ”
- Stephen R. Covey 

    “Most of us spend too much time on what is urgent and not enough time on what is important.”
- Stephen R. Covey

     “But until a person can say deeply and honestly, "I am what I am today because of the choices I made yesterday," that person cannot say, "I choose otherwise.”
- Stephen R. Covey 

    “Trust is the glue of life. It's the most essential ingredient in effective communication. It's the foundational principle that holds all relationships.”
- Stephen R. Covey

     “Most people do not listen with the intent to understand; they listen with the intent to reply.”
- Stephen R. Covey 

    “Seek first to understand, then to be understood.”
- Stephen R. Covey


    “To change ourselves effectively, we first had to change our perceptions.”
- Stephen R. Covey 

    “To touch the soul of another human being is to walk on holy ground.”
- Stephen R. Covey


    “When the trust account is high, communication is easy, instant, and effective.”
- Stephen R. Covey

    “Two people can see the same thing, disagree, and yet both be right. It's not logical; it's psychological.”
- Stephen R. Covey 

     “...to learn and not to do is really not to learn. To know and not to do is really not to know.”
- Stephen R. Covey 

    “If I really want to improve my situation, I can work on the one thing over which I have control - myself.”
- Stephen R. Covey 

    “You can't talk your way out of a problem you behaved your way into!”
- Stephen R. Covey


    “Habit is the intersection of knowledge (what to do), skill (how to do), and desire (want to do).”
- Stephen R. Covey 

    “There are three constants in life... Change, Choice and Principles.”
- Stephen R. Covey


    “At some time in your life, you probably had someone believe in you when you didn't believe in yourself.”
- Stephen R. Covey 

   “Live out of your imagination, not your history.”
- Stephen R. Covey

    “The main thing is to keep the main thing the main thing.”
- Stephen R. Covey


    “Words are like eggs dropped from great heights. You could no more call them back then ignore the mess they left when they fell.”
- Stephen R. Covey


    “Don't argue for other people's weaknesses. Don't argue for your own. When you make a mistake, admit it, correct it, and learn from it / immediately.”
- Stephen R. Covey

     “People simply feel better about themselves when they’re good at something.”
- Stephen R. Covey 

     “Effective leadership is putting first things first. Effective management is discipline, carrying it out”
- Stephen R. Covey

    “If the ladder is not leaning against the right wall, every step we take just gets us to the wrong place faster.”
- Stephen R. Covey

     “Our ultimate freedom is the right and power to decide how anybody or anything outside ourselves will affect us.”
- Stephen R. Covey

     “Admission of ignorance is often the first step in our education.”
- Stephen R. Covey 

     “You can't change the fruit without changing the root.”
- Stephen R. Covey

    “As long as you think the problem is out there, that very thought is the problem”
- Stephen R. Covey


     “A moment of choice is a moment of truth. It's the testing point of our character and competence.”
- Stephen R. Covey

     “As you care less about what people think of you, you will care more about what others think of themselves.”
- Stephen R. Covey 

    “The way we see things is the source of the way we think or the way we act”
- Stephen R. Covey 

     “Begin each day with the blueprint of my deepest values FIRMLY in mind then when challenges come, make decisions BASED on those values.”
- Stephen R. Covey 

    “When all you want is a person's body and you don't really want their mind, heart or spirit, you have reduced a person to a thing.”
- Stephen R. Covey 

    “Treat them all the same by treating them differently.”
- Stephen R. Covey

    “what is most personal ,is most general.”
- Stephen R. Covey 

    “The only person I know, is the person I want to be”
- Stephen R. Covey 

    “Involve people in the problem and work out the solution together.”
- Stephen R. Covey


    “Motivation is a fire from within. If someone else tries to light that fire under you, chances are it will burn very briefly.”
- Stephen R. Covey

    “Doing the right things for the right reason in the right way is the key to Quality of Life!”
- Stephen R. Covey